While the request may have thrown you for a loop, the reality is, playing with domination and submission can be a huge turn-on in the bedroom or, you know, wherever you're getting it on. For the partner being tied up, there's often something incredibly hot about handing over complete control. From the achingly sexy to the hella awkward, here are eight women's tales of what it was like to be tied up in bed for the first time. Needless to say, the following stories are NSFW.
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Dear Carole, Why does my girlfriend enjoy being tied up? Sex always involves rope, handcuffs or restraints of some sort, and often uniforms. She is anything but submissive outside the bedroom, but seems unable to achieve orgasm without being restrained in some way. When we have "vanilla" sex she enjoys it, but when tied she always has multiple orgasms.
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If you're feeling a little pervy because you want to tie someone one or be tied up yourself, you are officially about as pervy as Yes, technically BDSM stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism , but bondage is right there, the first one. And depending on how far you want to take it, bondage can include any of those elements.
When you ask people what they enjoy about tied up sex, you will get a wide variety of answers and a few awkward jokes. You will find that most binding practitioners are motivated largely by their partners pleasure. To really understand tied up sex, you first have to tunderstand what makes a person want to be bound. I think that in many cases it is related to the contrast with daily life.